This trip has been many years in the making.
I kind of gave up on the idea for a while. Who was I kidding? It was never going to happen, not with kids still at school, how would it work?? It all just seemed too hard.
One thing I didn't give up on over the years though was saving my money.
I have fantasied about Italy for a long time.
I've read all the books, you know the ones..... Under The Tuscan Sun and Eat, Pray Love - to name but a couple. It's something that I have always wanted to do.
The dynamics of my life, however, didn't seem to allow for a trip of the magnitude that I initially dreamed of. You see I wanted to spend at least several months there - to actually go and live in Italy, to live the Italian life so to speak! (You see where the fantasy part comes in?). I wanted to wander to the village each day to pick up whatever was fresh and plentiful in the market place, mingle with the locals. Enjoy la dolce vita!
The dynamics of my life, however, didn't seem to allow for a trip of the magnitude that I initially dreamed of. You see I wanted to spend at least several months there - to actually go and live in Italy, to live the Italian life so to speak! (You see where the fantasy part comes in?). I wanted to wander to the village each day to pick up whatever was fresh and plentiful in the market place, mingle with the locals. Enjoy la dolce vita!
I kind of gave up on the idea for a while. Who was I kidding? It was never going to happen, not with kids still at school, how would it work?? It all just seemed too hard.
One thing I didn't give up on over the years though was saving my money.
A wise friend once told me to save all my $5 notes, and $2 coins (of course there was a lot of other tidbits of money that also ended up in the "piggy bank" - birthday money, odd jobs that I had had over the years where I was paid cash). Over time the "piggy bank" grew heavier and heavier. One day I figured it was time to count my secret stash. How much did I really have tucked away for my "dream"? The first count showed me that I was getting very close to actually making this trip a reality. The hardest part now was figuring out how, and when, I could actually do the trip.
If I was going to make this trip I would probably have to do it alone. Could I do that?? I first dreamed about a trip to mark my 50th birthday - but that came and went - call me chicken, but I didn't think I could do it on my own. This year I decided (after counting the money of course) that I was brave enough to do this on my own - other people could do it - so why couldn't I?
So..... I took those first tentative steps, and actually ventured into the travel agents and started making enquiries.
So..... I took those first tentative steps, and actually ventured into the travel agents and started making enquiries.
That was when a quirk of fate stepped in and changed the trip's direction.
As I left the travel agents, after enquiring about cost of flights, times of year to go etc.. and a bundle of brochures under my arm, I bumped into a friend that I hadn't seen for a while. She asked me how I was? Excitedly I told her I was going to Italy (of course this was not yet set in concrete - but I figured if I told someone, then there was no turning back!!! I would now have to honour my words, and make the trip! As I told her my plans she commented that she had always wanted to do something like that too.....
As I left the travel agents, after enquiring about cost of flights, times of year to go etc.. and a bundle of brochures under my arm, I bumped into a friend that I hadn't seen for a while. She asked me how I was? Excitedly I told her I was going to Italy (of course this was not yet set in concrete - but I figured if I told someone, then there was no turning back!!! I would now have to honour my words, and make the trip! As I told her my plans she commented that she had always wanted to do something like that too.....
The rest, as they say is history!!!
So here is our story, I hope you enjoy our adventures.
Have a great time Sis, look forward to sharing your journey with you.
ReplyDeleteLooking forward to reading your adventure, it will be like I'm there (well in spirit anyway), have a blast but I don't need to keep telling you that you will... Rebeka
ReplyDeletestill waiting waiting waiting, wheres you, whatchya upto, i am so impatient.....
DeleteHey Cate,
ReplyDeleteHow is the trip going? Waiting to hear of your exploites in Italy.
Love Dad & Mum....